Hey, everyone. Please help me out. I'm feeling very bad. My doctor said to me that I can't become a mother. This news is very hard for me. My husband's behavior becomes changed towards me. He wants a baby boy. Last night he's saying that he is going towards a new marriage. He wants to leave me and divorce me. Today in the morning, he slapped me twice. Please tell me what should I do. I'm so much worried about it. Waiting for all of you.
Hey, honey. How are you? I hope you're well. I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. It's honestly pathetic. How can your own husband turn on you like this? It's not your fault. Don't beat yourself on it. Trust me, it's going to be alright. I'd suggest you look into assisted conception. There are surrogacy and IVF. You can go for either one or even IUIs. My support and prayers are with you. Don't lose hope, alright? Good luck!
Post by mindykeller on Jun 28, 2018 11:59:11 GMT -5
Oh, holy Lord. What kind of a man is he? I mean it is not your fault. You need to make him understand this. Tell him you can go for other options. There is IVF. You can go for IUI. Just make him understand. Eastern Europe has some great clinics. Just ensure you omit Adonis. Other than that you can find a suitable clinic.
Post by sheilahayes on Jun 28, 2018 12:06:53 GMT -5
Hello sweetheart. How are you? I pray that you're doing okay. Your post shook me to the core. You're going through so much pain. How can your husband act like that in such times of need? His actions are totally unacceptable. It's okay to want a child. But beating up your wife because she can't do it? That is not okay. It's not even in your hands. It's just fate. He needs someone who can knock some sense in him. And as for you, don't lose hope just yet sweetheart. Try surrogacy. Read it through. Go through some clinics in Europe. These fertility clinics are working wonders for people. I hope you get that too. Best of luck and lots of prayers for you!
Hey Lia! I just read your post. I really become so sad to know about your condition. Seriously, it's so hard to face it. You are such a strong girl. Such ups and downs are the part of life. I think you should look for some alternate methods that may help you in getting a baby. IVF and surrogacy are two ways among them. People are getting so much help from. You should persuade your husband to look for some methods. try to convince him. I hope he will be agreed with your decision. You can look for some videos on youtube regarding such methods. Seems good for you. I hope everything will be fine. Just be positive and hopeful.
Hi Lia. I am so sorry to hear that. First off you should consult someone elder about this issue. Being violent and getting abusive is not the way you should be treated. Don't stress about this too much. How about you go and change your doctor. Try consulting someone else. I am sure you will find a solution to this. Try getting IVF done or even surrogacy. It is the best procedure out there for infertile women. You should consult your nearest clinic. Talk to your husband about this when he is calm. And persuade him to go through this together. My prayers are with you. And just stay strong. I am sure you will find a way out of this.
Post by makiharukawa on Jun 29, 2018 0:13:23 GMT -5
I am devastated to hear what you're going through. Shame to the husband for acting the way he is. No woman should be treated this way for something that is not her fault. Infertility is becoming more and more common everyday. People should not treat it as some sort of rare occurence. There are many alternatives now that can help solve this issue. Try making your husband listen to reason. Take him to some of the clinics that offer alternative ways for pregnancy. Good luck.
I can understand the pain you are in. I have been through all such stages. This infertility makes our marriage life even tougher. There was a time when I got divorced because of my infertility. And I was actually devasted of all what happened. I was considering my self to be the reason for all such situations. But now I know how much wrong I used to be. This was not my fault. Actually, no one is at faulty when infertility is the reason. You should start looking for the alternatives available. Are you good to conceive? If yes then you should proceed towards IVF first. Would love to hear about your progress. Good luck.
It is really sad. He is so strange. I don't get why is he so senseless. Maybe it is his fault. I hope that you will be a mother. I think its time that you should move on. You should go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is a good and right decision to take. It is the best way to have babies. I wish you best of luck. I hope for the best. I wish that you will be a mom soon. Children are the greatest blessing. I was also infertile. I chose surrogacy. I am a mother now.
I am so sorry for you. It is not your fault. Why doesn't he understand? I hope that all your worries vanish away. Why don't you go for something else? I have faced infertility. I am 41 now. I also went for IVF but no luck. It's been so long I am trying IVF. But now I think its time to go for surrogacy. It is a good procedure. I think you should go for it too. I hope for the best. It is a right decision if you consider it. It is a safe procedure.
Post by lindajames998 on Jul 3, 2018 10:28:33 GMT -5
Hey there Lia. How are you doing? I am really really sorry to hear about this. This is a lot to bear. Your husband doesn't seem to love you. Are children more important to him? You should look into surrogacy and IVF. I hope it solves your problem. Good luck. Take care and lots of love.
Hey! hope you are doing fine. I know it would be a had time for you. Everything will be fine don't worry. You can go think of other ways. You can go to IVF or surrogacy. both procedures are great for having a baby. most of the people who cannot conceive baby choose IVF or surrogacy. I would suggest you go for surrogacy. I am not against IVF but IVF is somehow risky. In many cases, it does not give required results. Surrogacy is the great procedure. My friend is now 55 and she chose surrogacy to have a baby. Now she has a daughter. I think this would be perfect for you. Stay blessed.
This is so sad. I am lost for words. I cannot believe how your husband can do this. I do not want to hate on him but he should be supporting you. Have you thought of IVF or IUI? Even surrogacy is a good option for couples facing infertility. I am praying for you. Hope things work out.
Hello there. How are you? I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. How can your husband act like that in such times of need? His actions are totally unacceptable. It's okay to want a child. But beating up your wife because she can't do it? That is not okay. It's not even in your hands. It's just fate. You should not tolerate his behavior. There are many alternate methods you can go to like IVF and surrogacy. Take care.
Hello Dear, Hope you are living awesome and healthy like a superman. After reading the paragraph of your story that makes me sudden sad. I'll say you to have a strong belief that will make you strong to fulfill your desires. Time is not always bad forever but we can change that by our handwork. Pregnancy is for women a GOD gift so be patient and contact to a good services providr clinic. So at the end i would like to say something for the women that my suggestion for those who are facing infertility should visit the Ukraine clinic [DELETED], Best wishes and my love for you.
Post by scarlett9999 on Jul 4, 2018 9:16:00 GMT -5
hi dear. I'm so sorry this is happening to you. this is wrong. he shouldn't behave like this. this is not your fault. you should get yourself tested. maybe its the fault of your husband and not in you. if it's you. theirs nothing to worry. you can go for surrogacy o IVF. they both are alternate procedures. many Infertile couples got their kid through this. I'm sure it'll be good for you too. talk to your family about this. hope things go well for you. take care. lots of love. here to support.
Lia! please don't lose your hope. Don't stress. Its always good to wait for the better. I am sorry to hear about your infertility. I am sorry about your difficulty. Your situation is quite heartbreaking. I suggest you go for surrogacy. It's helping a lot of infertile to have their baby. It depends on the clinic who are well able to diagnose the actual problem. I am glad I heard about BioTex from my friend. I contacted them and had a successful surrogacy there. Their success rate is 95%. I have heard they are coming to London in the middle of August. You should definitely go and give them a visit. They are arranging an open session where the visitors can get answers to their queries. Goodluck to you.
Hi Lia, I am so sorry to hear this buddy. This is such a harsh behavior. Please hold on and try to calm down your husband. There are many advance treatments for infertility like IVF and surrogacy. You should consult a good and qualified doctor.I am an infertile myself and My DH also lost all hope and asked me to adopt a child. But I didnt agreed as I was adopted myself and my parents still wanted to have a biological child. So my DH agreed to take one last treatment chance. We want to consult the best possible clinic so we broaden our reach and started looking for clinics even outside Ireland. We came to know that a very good Ukraine clinic named [DELETED] is coming to visit London UK on 18 and 19 august. In this two day drill they will discuss the treatments and will also give chance to sign contract. Anastasia who is head of their English Department is also coming along. So there wont be any language barrier. This news felt like a blessing in disguise so we registered ourselves by emailing this clinic as there were limited seats. I can't wait to attend this event.
Hi Lia, I can understand the pain.I am so sorry to hear . hope you are doing fine. I know it would be a hard time for you. I'd suggest you look into assisted conception.There are many advance treatments for infertility like IVF and surrogacy. You should consult a good and qualified doctor. I suggest you go for surrogacy. It's helping a lot of infertile to have their baby. It depends on the clinic who are well able to diagnose the actual problem.i suggest to a very good Ukraine clinic named bio tex com is coming to visit London UK on 18 and 19 august. Their success rate is 95%.open session where the visitors can get answers to their queries. Goodluck to you.
Post by mirandajames on Jan 19, 2019 12:10:41 GMT -5
Hello. I'm so sorry to hear about this. This all sounds so horrible. It seems like you are in a very toxic relationship. Children shouldn't be your concern right now. The fact that you can't have children is showing your husband's real side. This is not good for you. Having kids with a man like that is very bad for you and the kids too. And so what if you can't have a baby naturally. You can always have one through alternative ways. But you need a supportive husband for this. Please think about it. I hope your problems get solved soon. Good luck. If you need any help, I'm here.
Hi Lia! I know that this is difficult but trust me there are many treatments out there for you to conceive with. Infertility is not a big thing nowadays, the medical is so improved that you don't have anything to worry about. Just find a good clinic for yourself and start your treatment asap. Stay blessed! Good luck!
Your story makes me quite sad. Don't lose hope, though. Please, remember, there are lots of options. So, keep the faith, alright? I will pray for you. However, please stop being so harsh on yourself. It isn't your fault! This is really common. It can happen to anyone. You should be thinking about the solutions. I'd suggest you visit a fertility clinic. That could be the change which could work! Good luck to you. Here's to hoping, you experience a change in fortune. My prayers and support are for you!
Post by hannah1234 on Feb 23, 2019 14:48:27 GMT -5
I am really sorry to hear about. I hope things get better for you. This is so disturbing. Instead of being supportive he is being such a bad person. Other than that there are many treatments available. Therefore, you can look into them as well. Look into the IVF treatment. I myself have opted for it and the clinic is doing an amazing job.
Post by hannah1234 on Mar 22, 2019 12:31:20 GMT -5
I can't believe that your husband is of this personality. I think you shouldn't even be talking to him on this issue. This is something very serious. However, if you want a child just know that there are soo many treatments that you can opt for. Someone who would support you would opt for them rather than looking at other options. IVF and IUI like procedures allow you to have children if dealing with complications. I mean I also was told I wouldn't be able to conceive naturally. Therefore, had to look into these procedures. However, one thing I found out was that it is really important to visit the right doctor. If the clinic is professional and experienced. They will know what to do. Good luck to you. I hope things go well for you. Sending lots of love. If you need help finding a doctor let me know. Will try to help.
Post by hannah1234 on Apr 21, 2019 14:15:38 GMT -5
I am really sorry to know this. I can understand that such behavior must be really hard for you. However, dont lose hope. If he wants to leave ou, for this reason, let him. However, you should know that now the technology in this field has immensely removed. Therefore, there are many treatments that you can option. It is all about visiting the right clinic. If the clinic is experienced and knows how to carry the process then things will go well. Just make sure to research about the clinic. Look at the services they offer and the packages as well. All of these things really matter. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way. I hope things go well for you. if you need any help let me know.
you know what? you should not stay with the man that hit his wife. and if he is planning another marriage, you should divorce him yourself. I do not know your whole situation. but there are ways of having kids on your own. and I am pretty sure you will be able to find a man that respects you! xxx
Post by zaffirakegness on May 2, 2019 8:24:36 GMT -5
Hey ladies and dear men who are here to support! I didn't want to create a new thread. I'll put my intro here if nobody minds. I’m 42 years old woman still having no children. I’ve been trying to conceive for 8 years before I gave up. I judged myself but didn’t have enough strength to continue. I lived through divorce. It was such a difficult process bringing up much stress and nerves. My Ex and I were in love and everything seemed so cloudless. We didn’t see any barriers to our goal of becoming parents. I got pregnant. 5 weeks passed absolutely normally and calmly. I was sure it would be completely safe pregnancy. My body was young. We both were sure his sperm and my inner conditions of lining, my uterus and other were excellent. In fact, who thinks about such detail when we are 25? My doc monitored my pregnancy. Nothing was said about possible complications. One day my baby died… I got up in bleeding. It was a bad dream. A real nightmare. I can’t say anything more thoroughly. It happed many years ago. But feels like it was on yesterday. All that harrowing feeling comes through my body but my eyes don’t see anything clearly. My memory has dissolved in fog. Unfortunately, god didn’t give us another chance to get pregnant in natural way. I underwent 5 IVF rounds. Every attempt was like that one which must bring result. I don’t like to talk about all this. My friends know that neither my treatment was successful. Our relationship was getting worse. First we decided to live separately for some weeks. Then we got used to live far from each other. And then my ex hubby met his new wife who gave birth to his 2 sons. It wasn’t easy to know that without evil envy. Without pain inside my heart. This fact destroyed me. My Lars knew that I was infertile. It’s my husband who does whatever to make me really happy. He knew that I tried a lot of cycles without getting success. He said we have to try surrogacy. It was weirdly to find out he was aware about such procedures and he was sure we had to try it. We were holding our research together. worldcenterofbaby.com – became our choice. I’ll be happy to explain why. I’m going to do it if it’s interesting. Today our surrogate mother is in 12th week. I’m keeping my fingers crossed. I pray for her and our baby. Only now I feel that my life turned back to reality. I don’t imagine where it was all that time. Now I’m confident that everything goes like it has to be. I’d be happy to hear from you if you were a client of wcob. Or if you know any other clinics in Europe. Anyway I’ll be glad to answer some question. I hope you all are doing good. You are running your life like you want to. My sweetest wishes my dear! Xx
Post by jennifer123 on May 29, 2019 18:53:29 GMT -5
Hey Lia, I am really sorry to read about your journey. I hope things get better for you. Dont lose hope! I am sure things will work out. There are soo many procedures that you can opt for now. It is all about visiting the right clinic that will give you the best advice. Therefore, research on this and get help!
Honey, you should not be okay with an abusive relationship. It's not okay to let him do this. It's hardly your fault. You should not blame yourself about it. Don't be so hard on yourself. I'd suggest you seek help right away. Good luck with your situation!
Hey, Lia I am extremely sorry that you have to go through this all. Firstly, I don't think you should even continue to be in a relationship with someone who is violent towards you. Secondly, a lot of women these days are unable to conceive naturally, however, are still able to become mothers. Therefore, don't worry just start researching in the right direction. There are so many assisted conceptions that you can go for. I would suggest that you just research. It is quite surprising that your doctor didn't tell you about all the options. IUI, IVF and even surrogacy are all great procedures. Therefore, I would say that maybe for such treatments visit a good doctor. A clinic with a high success rate matters a lot. I myself have recently changed my doctor. The clinic I am visiting is doing an excellent job. Although I have had just the first few meetings with them I am still very confident about them. If you want I can share the details. Stay strong!
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